Sunday, May 13, 2007 @6:10 AM
woot!!today is sunday again!!in a few hours can go church see every1 again..last week nvr go..miss every1~~..lol..woke up at 2.30 today..cause some1 sms me lar..tell me don't need go help carry stuffs..sian..after that can't sleep le..anyway i watched anime..lol..
ohya..i learned something important from this anime!!(Futakoi) don't know if any1 watch be4..not very famous..but i really like the show..very touching..for me lah at least..its about this guy..who returned to his old hometown..and his live was revolving around 5 pairs of twins who like him..LIKE..but 2 pairs fell in love with him in the end..actually..from the start lah..lol..ending then confessed..but the whole story was cool..how i wish reality would be the same..
oh well..back to the important thing i learnt:
i feel it applies to both relationships and friendships...
well..direct from the show..it was the relationship part..cause love story mah..
the guy couldn't make a choice between the 4 girls(2 pairs of twins)..so he dragged on..tried to be friendly with every1..didn't want to make up his mind who he liked..caused he CLAIMED he didn't want to hurt any of the girls..but in reality..he is hurting them all as the longer he drags..the more they like him and when the time comes when he makes his choice..it will be much more painful for the other 3 girls to accept..so in the end..he CLAIMS he didnt want to hurt any of the girls but ACTUALLY he just didnt want to hurt himself...
hmm..i'm abit luan le..maybe the what i said ealier in this para hasnt got anything to do with my point..lolz..anyways..my point is as in friendships or relationships too lah..
MAKE SURE THE OPPOSIT PARTY IS HAPPY
IF HE/SHE IS SAD..
YOU ARE NOT BEING A TRUE FRIEND OR A CARING PARTNER..
YOU MAY USE THE EXCUSE THAT IT IS FOR HIS OWN GOOD...
YOU ARE HELPING HIM...
BUT IF HE/SHE IS NOT HAPPY ABOUT IT..
YOU ARE DOING IT FOR YOURSELF...
NOT FOR HIS/HER SAKE...
YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY...
THINKING THAT YOU HAVE HELPED HIM/HER...
YOU MAY THINK YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND AND PARTNER...
CAUSE YOU HELPED HIM/HER...
BUT YOU ARE NOT!...
YOU ARE SELFISH!...
DOING EVERYTHING JUST FOR YOURSELF...
THINKING ONLY ABOUT YOU AND ONLY YOU!...
SO ALWAYS THINK BEFORE YOU ACT...
IS SHE HAPPY??...
lol..maybe it won't make any sense to you but i really believe in this..well..if you think otherwise...care to give me your comments in the cbox?^^..lolz..ok..
ohya..the song i feel its really nice..koped from mh's blog..soz bout that..but i really liked it too..^^..hope u don't mind..
let me finish off with my ending statement:
MY LAMENESS ENDS HERE..MUAHAH...