Saturday, June 9, 2007 @9:23 PM
hmm,today,nothing much again,same like every saturday,go mrs ong tuition in the morning,reach home,slack,sleep,crap around,evening parents went to JB again,don't feel like going,continued crapping around.
ohya,last night,was chatting with jieying,hmm,she seems sad and pissed off about something mah,so i went read more posts,after a chat with her,i more or less understood what was happening,well,i tried to give my views as an outsider of this situation,at the same time try to comfort and try think of a best solution to this problem.actually,i also a bit pissed off after hearing the story,i mean,its not their fault at all,its not their problem at all,yet they are the ones who have to suffer,and that jerk,i don't know,is he feeling anything??i doubt so,i mean,if you don't plan to take a relationship seriously in the first place,don't start it!why start one and end it after you had your fun like it is a game or something,and leave the girl hurt,i mean,are you a MAN??ok,this just gets more pissing the more i think about it,i feel no one is at fault in this whole situation except that jerk,but everyone but that jerk is suffering.
and now jieying is pissed and sad cause she feels that she could not help her friend,ok,though i can't be counted a real friend,but i really don't feel good seeing you like this too,its not your fault,you have done your part by persuading her,you can't change her life,you don't have the power and rights to change her life,all you can do is warn and persuade and she has to decide what she wants with her life,you have done your part,you have tried to help her but if she does not want it,all you can do is sit and wait,be there for her when she needs you later,i feel that thats all you can do,though it may sound that you are doing all the work,but well,thats what friends are for,be there when one side is in need,hmm,lol,maybe this whole paragraph is bullshit,but well,thats what i think and feel + ian's theory to maintain friendships..=)..haha,lamer right me,
don't be pissed,don't be sad,you are the greatest friend one can wish for,its all up to her to treasure that friendship.=)
hmm,better not anyhow comment le,its not my business,i'm just a busybody outsider.